Thursday, January 25, 2007

Happy Marriage is God's Will

In my church, there is a strong emphasis of happy marriage and happy family is important. Pastor Prince preached that we should put Jesus in the mid of us. Wife obeys the husband the way we obey Lord Jesus. Husband love the wife as much as he loves the church. Kids to respect the parents and parents should love their kids like Jesus, Father God loves us. Jesus is to be the mid of our house too. Once we let Him lead us, all issues in the house and outside the house, He will take care for us. We just have to trust His everlasting Love. :)

When the first time I heard about this message, I wonder why Father God mind so much about our marriages and families. About 3 weeks back, I was tempted in my dream, with rich guy, with handsome guy, even had one that showed his manhood to me. I was disgusted and for all the proposals, I just rejected and told them I am married. From this encounter, I got this revelation that d likes to steal, kill and destroy…even marriages. As I stayed at home most of the time, the temptation came in the form of dream, for others, it may be real life temptation for the weak at heart to fall in. :(

Thanks to God, we have Heavenly Father, he wants to bless marriages and he would bring couples that came together in Christ to be united forever. Praise the Lord :)

Personally, my marriage builds on solid foundation. We do have some arguments here and there, but they are nothing serious. I was thinking that there is nothing more Father can do for my marriage. Hehe…but I was wrong. :P Through these few months, I have found that hubby has changed regarding his tolerant to my acceptant of Christ and so crazy into it, as he said. Also, he is now more loving towards me. He would talk to me gently and once a while, he will come by to hug and fondle me. :P In the last few years, when we were out of a source of income, we need not worry about them. Life still sailed through without much worries. Praise the Lord. :D Oh yeah, Holy Father visited me last night. :) I had visions of a baby being created for me. He also showed me a toddler view of her. Hallelujah!

For my friend, W, Lord does wonders in her and her marriage. :) When I started chatting more with her, I found out that she had separated with her hubby for 2-3 years. She was very hurt and angry about the whole issues. At that time, all the blame fell on her hubby. Lord let her realized that she had some pitfalls that contributed to the breakdown. From there, Lord helped her to get rid most of the hurt and anger.

Next, Lord let her know of His love for her. Lord through me preached to her on how to rebuke those negative thoughts that were putting her down and to stand strong on Jesus victory ground. She had thought that she was a moody girl. But Lord showed her that she was not. Finally, she realized of the Fatherly Love from God.

Next, Lord look into her views on marriage and sex. Yes, Lord cares about a wholesome marriage life. He wants us to have great marriage and great sexual life as couples. For the next 2 days, Lord in me was sharing my knowledge in these areas to her. For her fall shorts, she trusted Jesus to change her. Yes, Lord can change you to a better person! I know because He had changed me. :D Hallelujah!

Recently, after 5 years of separation, Lord wants to move them back together again. He let W realized that it was d that wanted their marriage to breakdown. She should give her and her hubby another chance. On 1st Jan 2007, they met again and Lord let her hubby know the new her. Now Lord is working on her hubby, W is resting in victory ground waiting for the return of her hubby. Hallelujah!

Sis has a ‘defunct’ family, the parents always not at home for the kids. My nephews, one preferred to hide in the cave while the other, rebellious. In December, elder nephew attended a church camp for about a week. The anointing in this camping trip changed him. He is no more hiding his emotions; he behaves like a normal teenager now. Younger nephew, ever since he accepted Christ, he is so much into attending sermons, and bible reading. He has been chasing his mum to get a bible for him. Recently, I can see that he is not as rebellious as before.

Now that sis has get into the relax job that Lord has wanted her to go for, she has time for her family. Lord is teaching her to be more gentle and loving to the kids. Lord had revealed to her that next time, her hubby will love her so much till she will be filled so full and this love will spill over for her to love the kids that she is going to lead. Praise the Lord. :)

No comments: