My Girl has Grown

This week, trying to get my girl out with me is really hard. She is not interested.

I tried the arcade idea and she replied, "Mummy, i am not that 10 year old kid who likes to play at arcade. I am a mature teenager who like doing big girl stuff!"

I scratch my head and wonder what teenager do! But she didn't tell me!

Asked her if she likes to eat durian, she took a long time to reply me. And wanted me to buy and bring to her!!!

I really feel like quitting to be her mum at one point but she said she was not around but having fun with her pet rabbit!!!

Ex refused to be the middle man between me and Jc. I think I have to let go more about caring that much about her!!!

I have to learn to be her friend as someone who went through bad relationship with her daughter once taught!

My God, My Abba, I need Your Help to restore my relationship with Jc. Thank You for the 120% restoration for the time stolen from our relationship. Glory Glory!!! Amen Amen!!!

The Formation of Earth and Skies

Proverb 8:22-31

'The Lord possessed me 
in the Beginning of His Way,
Before His Deeds of Old. 

I was set up from Everlasting,
From the Beginning,
Or ever the Earth was. 

When there were No Depths,
I was Brought Forth when
There were No Fountains
Abounding with Water. 

Before the Mountains were Settled,
I was Brought Forth
Before the Hills:

While as yet He had Not Made 
the Earth or the Fields or
The First Dust of the World.

I Was There when He 
Prepared the Heavens,
When He set a Compass
Upon the Face of the Depth,

When He Established the Skies above,
When He Strengthen 
the Fountains of Deep,

When He Set Its Boundaries
To the Sea so the Waters
Would Not Pass 
Beyond its Shore,
When He Appointed 
The Foundations of the Earth. 

Then I was by Him,
As One Brought up with Him:
And I was daily His Delight,
Rejoicing Always before Him,

Rejoicing in the Habitable 
Part of His Earth
And My Delights
Are with the sons of men.'

Lord Jesus was with God the Father in the Begining and this is how earth, skies and Heavens were created. And the Love of JESUS the Son to God the Father and His Love for us, men are demonstrated. 

Men Playing Field

Men who went around devouring women, they thought they are enjoying the moment of releasing themselves. But the bible, in the proverb speaks of such game as a very serious harm to the liver.

One would wonder how it happens, but the bible explain such as sin against self.

Proverb 7:22-23, 26-27
'He goes after her straightway,
As an Xo goes to the Slaughter,
As One in Fetters to 
the Punishment of the Fool. 

Till A Dart strikes through his Liver;
Like a Bird hastens to the snare and
Does Not Know that
It is For Its Life. 

For she Has Cast Down Many Wounded;
Yes, very numerous are all Her Slain. 

Her House is the Way to the Grave,
Going Down to the Chambers of Death.'

Proverbs 9:18
'But he does not know that the Dead are there;
Her guests are in the Depths of Hell.'

I heard of a pastor from USA told our congregation long ago that one of his friend was enjoying his supply of women but sin caught up him and he died at 56.

I rather believe the Word of God than to sin against my own body that bring forth unnecessary death.

This why faithful to God and to spouse is important. I do not mean my ex when I mention spouse but just a general term for all to understand the important of Faithfullness to self.

Glory Glory!!! Amen Amen!!!

Why Man Fails

Adam allows the Snake to talk to Eve. He just keep quiet. In the end, Eve was being deceived by the Snake!!! This lead to the fall of mankind to be sinners as Adman fails to speak!!!

Why my marriage failed also due to P kept himself busy surfing the websites and hardly talk to me.

It only when I asked him something then he would reply. Otherwise, he kept silent on talking love to me, and me, being a woman, is an emotional being and need input of love into my love bank!!!

Many marriages fails also due to communication break down over time. 

We grow day by day and if couples do not talk about the daily affair; to update the spouse of their lives, overtime, both will be stranger to each other. 

That's why Lord Jesus in the bible told man to love their woman. To talk love into their life and to engage them with your life.

Abraham did not tell Sarah about his plan with Isaac and this led to Sarah looking everywhere for her baby and died heart broken in a different town instead by the side of Abraham!!!

That's why man cannot keep quiet if they want their spouse to continue loving them!!!

Just thought this might be a good reminder to men!!!

You want to be the Head of the House, speak Grace into Spouse and see how she react to your words of Grace!!!

Law is dead so never speak demands into woman. Ex killed my heart dead due to his commandments day in day out!!!

The Principle of Seduction

Meditating on Proverbs 7, it teaches how to avoid being tempted!!! Glory Glory!!! No wonder Pastor Prince previously commented never drive a female home no matter how late the time but give her the money to take cab home!!!

In Proverb 7, it talks among the Simple ones, among the Youths, we are all young in Christ, there is a young man void of understanding! If we commit the sin, we will be the ignorant youth!!!

How does the temptation come?

He Pass Through the Street Near her Corner!!!

If we drive or share a cab with someone, both will be together when one's home is reached. The temptation of being invite to the home is there by nature of darkness of this world!!!

What is the time involved???

In Twilight,
In the Evening of the day,
In the Middle of the Night and
Darkness!!!

Purely by the above Timming, the temptation will be there if the two are of opposite sex!!! So clear that church practise counselling man by male pastor and woman by female pastor!!!

This is to avoid the above scenario from happening!!!

See, the bible knows human nature well and preaches so clearly that one cannot doubt and even comment the one who did it will deplete oneself of the soul and understanding will be reduced.

I hope from this short post, one would stay faithful to ones spouse as there is life imparted to sozo one's own spouse. Rivers of water will flow out from loving ones beloved that life will be good!!!

Glory Glory!!!

Amen Amen!!!