I was watching Mark Gungor, 'Yo Mama Session' again yesterday and I have a better understanding of the Love, God created for man to enjoy!!! This is His Creation:
Genesis 1:27
'So God created mankind in His Own Image; He created him in the Image of God.
He created them Male and Female.
And God blessed them and God said to them, 'Be Fruitful! Multiply! Fill the earth!
Subdue it and have Dominion over the fish of the sea and over the fowl of the air and over every living thing that moves upon the earth!'
He created Male and Female in the body of man. and used one of his ribs to create woman from the man. This is why, when man and woman united together, they formed 1 unit of the creation.
Woman was created in the day of Sabbath, so woman is created in His Rest.
Genesis 2:21-25
'And the Lord God caused a deep sleep to fall upon Adam, and he slept.
And He took one of his ribs and closed up the flesh in its place.
He built the ribs, which the Lord God had taken from man, into a woman and brought her to the man.
And Adam said, "This is now bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh. She will be called Wife (Ishah), because she was taken out of Husband (Ish).
Therefore a man will leave his father and his mother and will cling to his wife, and they will be one flesh."
And they both naked, the man and his wife, and were not ashamed.'
This is God ordain of man and woman. To look to each other, the united pair, to be fruitful and multiply!!! In this, He created pleasure for them to enjoy each other!!!
Man in his early image imprint in his mind, for his pleasure is from his wife, he will focus on her and every single of his need he will get from her.
Wife received from Husband the pleasure, the expression of Love and whenever she wants pleasure, she will look for the husband. This is God ordain for man. Glory Glory!!! Amen Amen!!!
The world is so perverted by devil to break whatever Goodness God has ordained to man. Especially in this end time. Devil lead man to look to many other women, to porno (imaginary woman), to self service aka masturbation, and cause extreme lust to come in all these that man cannot calm down to enjoy the pure love that God has ordained man.
When man started with pre-marital sex, or masturbation and porno, his mind imprint will be this is his source of pleasure. When this imprint are sealed in him, when he found a wife, his focus will not be just on the wife, but diluted into wife, plus masturbation, plus porno.
Thus, the pure, ecstasy pleasure that comes from when man and wife focusing on each other are gone!!! And man complained that they could not get enough or ever could have pleasure with wife, because of this lost of focusing and was harp up by the imaginary image of porno (hooked into the unreal world)!!!
Wife, if they allow themselves to be defiled by many of their boyfriends before marriage, she will have different level of pressure of love expressed to her and eventually, when she marry the husband, she will have confusion and diminished enjoyment!!!!
I ever know someone was defiled to have tortured form of sex in her younger days in oversea study. This man would tied her up before having sex with her. Even though it created fear in her, but the lust from such buried deep into her that when she married her husband, a normal man, she said it was boring as her mind was on that experience she had while in oversea schooling!!!
For me, personally, ex was my one and only. As man strength and woman strength has a great different, he serving me and I serving myself have a great different too. So much so that I preferred his service to mine. As such, even in divorce, when need to try because of Lord blessing me, I am still looking to him to do the test instead of someone else!!!
However, as ex was used to have different women and into porno, his focus wasn't on me alone. As such, we have yet to enjoy the greatest pleasure Sarah enjoyed with Abraham that even at age 90, she was secretly thinking if she should still have pleasure with her lord at that age!!! That shows how much she had enjoyed that it lingered in her mind!!!
Mark Gungor said that man ejaculation was not the highest form of orgasm. He said man could eject from watching porno and self service, wasn't the same enjoyment as compared to focusing on woman alone and receive the expression of Love from each other!!! He knows it as He has married his wife from age 18 and have been having each other all these while!!!
No woman would want their man to look at porno and with their mind on something else and come to look for her for sex. There is a different on doing the act only as compared to mind to mind connected, heart to heart connected, the Love flowing to and forth.
To make love under such heart connection and joy, the pleasure derived must have been so great that Sarah question in joy if at that old age should she continued to enjoy the pleasure with her husband, Abraham!!!!
How much mankind had shifted away from God original Ordain of Love that everyone is looking to somewhere else to find this love. Devil have even get man on man and woman on woman to make thing worst!!!
Recently, I read in America, they even have man and woman that come together just for the sake of having a baby but emotionally not connected!!!! How pitiful is that???
This is why, when I know of that one act of love, even though not from the same man, there is much sweetness in it as compared to the 9+ years of my married life. Someone who is doing something special just for me, the joy is very different from one that is not sincere!!! In fact, when I think of this sweetness, it's from this man who perform the act instead of he whom now I know is the person who instructed!!!
This is why, when Lord pointed me back to ex, the displeasure in me raised! While in C, he used many other people to represent him, and the man is not there. This is why it is so loop-sided for me, to even feel anything from him!!!! Lord ordination is for man and woman, not man with something else or woman with something else!!!
I am finally getting a better picture of this whole thing about Love!!!
Thank You, Abba for this teaching of Love!!! Hallelujah!!! Amen Amen!!!!
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